How to find out about the sexual preferences of your partner by her favorite movies
Date: 2023-09-16 Author: Karina Ziganova Categories: BLOG 18+
The sexologist advises asking your new partner which movie or series about relationships he likes best. According to her, if a person chooses a light romantic comedy, it means that he values intimacy and emotions.
“Lady Chatterley's Lover hints at a desire for the forbidden, while raunchy classics like Secretary suggest an adventurous lover,” says Cox.
The expert also named several questions that are important to ask each other at the beginning of a relationship in order to avoid problems in the future. So, in her opinion, you need to ask how often and at what time of day the partner prefers intimacy. The answers to these questions will help to find out sexual compatibility in a couple at an early stage.
Another question is about the most reliable way to bring you to orgasm. This is how couples, according to the expert, find their magic formula to achieve orgasm together. If a girl can climax during oral sex, but a guy prefers intercourse, the “she comes first” rule should be followed.
The expert also advises finding out how partners feel about adult films. Some people think it's cheating and porn degrades women. Others see it as a harmless means of masturbation. Finding out your partner's opinion and choosing a strategy in advance is a wise move.
What should you not ask your partner?
The sexologist is sure that you should not ask your partner how many lovers he has had:
“Most people lie and say 10 - and no matter what you say, it will not be enough or too much. It's also none of your business or theirs. What happened before you met each other doesn't matter, what matters is what happens from now on."
Another question that is best forgotten is about the best sex of your life. The expert says it sounds harmless if you've never had sex together. But once you do, most of us narcissistically assume what our partner will say about your sex.
The sexologist remembered for a long time how offended she was when her boyfriend enthusiastically described a passionate meeting with an Italian waitress. Therefore, the expert advises making the question safe by adding “with me” at the end - this way you will talk about your intimate life and find a way to improve it.
