SEX AS IN THE MOVIES
Date: 2023-07-14 Author: Karina Ziganova Categories: BLOG 18+
An extremely important oxymoron. However, the films are based on a script with well-thought-out scenes – all the details about the meeting of the characters, surprise, acquaintance, euphoria, etc. Imagine the scene with Michael Douglas and Glenn Clowes in Fatal Attraction and you'll get an idea of what it's all about.
The problem is that in established relationships, and especially in marriage, the "new" is difficult to achieve. You need to free your minds—and your bodies—from habit and routine.
The best way to break monotony is to break the rules. Do you have sex before dinner? Tonight do it after that. Do it after the kids go to bed? Get home from work half an hour early and do it before picking them up from school. Or set the morning alarm a little earlier, take a shower and ask your partner to dry you – see if you can resist each other.
Also, change the usual way you seduce. Be brave. Enter the kitchen and unceremoniously sit on the countertop, pulling your husband towards you, then lock your legs behind his back. Be challenging - this will do, especially if you generally have a more meek character.
The different positions in sex are also a huge variety. Do you always lie down in bed? This time stand up at the table or at the washing machine. You don't have to tie yourself in a knot to try something new.
Be the hot chick
Sometimes the hottest sex happens between a good boy and a challenging, sexual woman. You know how femme fatalities are quoted in the cinema. Even if you don't want to behave like this, do it at least once. You may need to exercise a little, as sometimes a person is unnatural and may even find it funny.
For starters, flirt. Do classic things like play with your hair, touch your neck and coquettish. Movie heroes love to be touched. Speak slowly and fascinatingly.
For voice acting in bed – men love to hear their partner during sex – moderately, of course. Do not be silent and indulge in pleasure in the most clichéd way you can imagine. Tell him things like "Yes!", "More!" and "I want you!".
Flirt with taboos
Sex on the screen impresses us most with the fact that it touches our fantasies, many of which are deeply enclosed in our minds. Tie your hands, even if it is not handcuffed. A silk scarf, or even a trouser belt (if it's his - even better) can do an ideal job.
Be a bit of an exhibitionist – is there a place where actors haven't had sex? In the elevator, in the pool, on the beach, at a party. Risk lifts adrenaline to the sky. However, assess the situation wisely - while you are "filming", the police will not compromise just because you are in love.
Be the bad girl – and let your partner control you. Pull it towards you while you are in the back and if you have to order it to penetrate you from behind.
Treat yourself - pamper him too. At least once a month, or as often as you want, do something "sexually-special," such as having sex breakfast, having sex at the office, or in some other unusual way — just enough to make him look forward to this moment.
Very often, such sexual acts in movies are called "movie clichés" – precisely because of the frequency with which we see them. But the fact that they've become clichés means they're selling and that also means there's someone to watch them. Even if our sexual dreams are "clichéd," that doesn't mean we can't make them happen!
