THE ART OF MUTUAL MASTURBATION

How to Masturbate with Your Partner in 4 Easy Steps

It takes courage for those who would feel awkward, fearful, or ashamed not only to admit to their partner that they are self-sufficient, but also to show them how they do it. 99% of people would like to know how their partner is self-sufficient. Here are four easy steps to switch from self-masturbation to mutual masturbation.

Masturbate while your partner is at home. Whisper in his ear that you intend to spend time with yourself. Share a few exciting details so your partner can imagine what you would do. For example, seeing you in your head sliding your fingers on your damp clitoris, or you can imagine him touching his penis, thinking how much he wants it. Thus, the sexual desire of both partners will be aroused.

If you're a little worried about touching yourself in front of your partner, choose a suitable time or place when you'll be able to dim the lights and play relaxing music.

Remember that your goal isn't necessarily to reach orgasm, but rather to make you feel comfortable getting aroused by masturbating in front of your partner.

When the degrees really rise during foreplay, whisper to your partner that you would like to show them how you touch. Relax in his embrace, lie back and start slowly touching each other.

During this foreplay, seduce your partner by offering him and him to show you how he likes to touch. If he hesitates, suggest that he start using your hand.

Once you're hot, start self-indulgence without saying a word. At some point, your partner will feel that you are touching each other and that it is driving you crazy with excitement. Touch lightly and sensually. If you like it, you can let it suck your fingers and thus taste you. Tell him that it would really excite you to watch you touch. After a few minutes, prompt your partner to start touching, assuring him how hard it would turn you on to look at him.

You can also plug a vibrator into foreplay and let your partner watch you settle for it.

Once you feel comfortable masturbating in front of your foreplay partner, you're ready to move on to masturbation at the same time. It is very suitable for those of you who are not yet ready for the real experience.

Kiss, caress each other, feel each other! Then sit or lie next to each other. Concentrate on yourself and enjoy the sexual energy you both create without even touching each other. You can close your eyes or look at your partner from time to time, but still stay focused on your own pleasure. For an even more tempting experience, you can use aromatic oils or lubricant. Some couples have fun watching erotic movies while sensually touching each other's legs on the way to a happy ending. If you don't like erotic movies, try creating an atmosphere through gentle music, candles, or share your sexual fantasies, the last time you had sex, or just describe how much you enjoy touching each other in your most sensitive places. If you like it, you can also use a vibrator.

When the feeling of shame has disappeared and you don't feel vulnerable, it's time to share the tempting experience of self-water with your partner. Choose a place where you can both sit or lie down comfortably. Your heads are on opposite sides, and a tempting sight is revealed before your eyes.

In case you feel uneasy, you can turn down the lighting, as well as stay with clothes, it is preferable to be sexy. If you feel weird looking your partner in the eye, try looking at their hands and mouth — it can really turn you on.

In the beginning, it's best to start by having one orgasm first and then the other. In this way, you will both be able to carefully observe your partner's technique, as well as what excites him. Another advantage of having an orgasm consistently is that you can contribute to your partner's arousal by talking, kissing him, and stroking his body while he is self-sufficient. For example, a woman may kiss, lick, and/or suck her partner's scrotum while he masturbates, or he may suck on her nipples or touch and kiss her entire body while she stimulates her clitoris.

With time, when you already feel more comfortable with each other, you can try to have an orgasm at the same time. Often, people have more control over having an orgasm when they masturbate than they do with sex or oral sex.

When you have already known each other's preferences, try to subdue your partner by telling him how you want him to touch. This would be very exciting for both you and him.

There are no rules for touching only yourself during mutual masturbation. You can "conquer" your partner's territory and touch them by satisfying them. Sometimes feeling like helping your partner have a divine orgasm at a time when you're about to get one can make you feel closer and even boost your sync during sex.

Mutual masturbation can be one of the most intimate and erotic experiences two people can experience together, delivering them a new sexual adventure in foreplay.