How to in a woman's mouth
Date: 2023-09-03 Author: Karina Ziganova Categories: BLOG 18+
Cum in your mouth - humiliation or encouragement?
The perfect blowjob, according to men, ends with the moment when she swallows the sperm. That's how a lot of people think of it. But not everyone manages to realize such a scenario.
The fantasy arises as a result of watching porn, where women swallow seminal fluid with pleasure. But it is important to understand that there is a difference between movies and real life. Often in adult films, artificial sperm is used to make the frame look more interesting. And actresses get a good reward for this.
The tradition of swallowing semen is a thing of the distant past. For example, in Japan it was a symbol of humiliation when a man finished on a girl's face or in her mouth. In other nations, this is a rite of preservation of the seed, which should not have fallen to the ground, not a single drop of such a valuable composition should be lost.
Today, swallowing cum is more often seen as an act of trust. A man trusts his body to a lady, she completely controls his pleasure. And swallowing sperm indicates that she is ready to "take it completely."
But if you add coercion or moral pressure to the process, then “ending in the mouth” becomes an act of humiliation. And this image is often used in BDSM videos.
How to convince her to swallow cum
Sometimes you need to speak your mind. A girl may not realize that this is an important and interesting moment for you during sex. She may think that if she's not interested, then you don't need it either. And that's enough of a simple request.
If she refuses for some reason, you need to eliminate her. How to deal with humiliation is written above. If she does not like the taste, it can be changed. By eating more fruits, it will be possible to adjust the composition of the sperm.
If she is shy, because she has never done it, you need to convince her that this is not scary. It is important to tell that the volume of sperm is small, that it does not exceed a tablespoon, it is not difficult to swallow. The fear arises from the depiction in porn of the abundance of sperm, but this is a fake, not a reality.
You can bring it to this point gradually. Start cumming on her face. At the same time, it is important to show her that you really like it, that you are grateful for this opportunity. Seeing such an attitude, she herself will want to swallow the ejaculant.
What does a woman feel when she gets cum in her mouth
The main sensation is the taste of sperm. And a certain texture, similar to yogurt. Semen can be very thick or liquid. It is not much, but enough to feel all its features. From 2 to 10 ml is released at a time.
What does sperm taste like. Everyone has his own. It is a salty substance. Sometimes it does not look like fish, sometimes there are notes of pickles, bacon, old cheese. Only a few can call it delicious. And she has a pronounced smell, it is also individual.
What determines the taste of sperm. Scientists claim that nutrition affects the taste of semen. The more alcohol, the more bitterness. The more fruit, the more pronounced the sweetness. There are even special diets to improve the taste of semen.
What determines the texture of sperm. From when there was a previous sexual intercourse. If for a long time, then the sperm is thick, opaque. If 1-2 days ago or earlier, the texture is more fluid and the amount is less.
Rules for a perfect blowjob ending
If you decide to try the cum-swallowing finale for the first time, there are a few simple rules that a man should follow:
Get her consent for blowjob and swallowing. She herself must want it, physical or emotional pressure is unacceptable. Sex is a process that brings pleasure to both, so everything should take place on a voluntary basis.
Warn of the approaching finale. You need to do this in a few seconds so that she can prepare. An unexpected orgasm can be unpleasant, the girl can even choke. With a warning, she will be ready to discharge.
Don't judge if something goes wrong. There are times when she took cum in her mouth, but realized that she could not swallow. In this situation, she will have to spit it out. It is not always convenient and aesthetically pleasing. A negative reaction to such behavior will push the woman away.
Be grateful. If everything went according to plan, let her know that you are very pleased with just such a finish. Express your gratitude in words or actions. Sometimes it is appropriate to kiss her on the lips to show that you do not disdain your own secretions.
It is important to understand that a woman rarely experiences the pleasure of swallowing sperm. This is a way to please a man who does not give her physical satisfaction. And if he does it, then only for the sake of a partner.
What not to do during a blowjob
During male ejaculation, the woman herself decides how to take his discharge. There are two basic techniques.
To the tongue. The penis does not sink deep, while the sperm falls on the tongue. The woman has a strong sense of taste. Suitable for those who are not sick of such a substance.
Into the throat. The penis sinks deeper, the sperm falls only on the root of the tongue, the woman almost does not feel the taste, as she immediately swallows.
How to swallow - she decides for herself, choosing the best way. And you can not demand something else from her. This is her choice, which should not be denied.
You can not move sharply and aggressively, interfering with the ability to respond. This leads to her choking. Binding, holding at the moment of ejaculation can be life-threatening.
You should not expect that the girl will behave like in porn - she will begin to savor the released liquid with pleasure. This is done defiantly and very rarely.
When you can not cum in a woman's mouth
It is important to understand that the final in the female mouth is unprotected intercourse. And he is dangerous with the possibility of contracting sexually transmitted infections. It is not recommended to agree to such caresses with unfamiliar people. Refusing a condom during a blowjob increases the risk of contracting dozens of diseases.
The chance of contracting HIV from a blowjob is less than from other types of sex, but it is there. Swallowing semen increases the chance of infection. This is due to the fact that the sperm is in contact with the oral cavity, where there may be wounds. And infection occurs through them.
How to quickly improve the taste of semen
Changing the diet is a long way to correct taste. And not always effective. There is another way - the use of delicious lubricants.
Oral lubricants are specially designed for blowjobs and cunnilingus. They improve gliding and add a new taste to what is happening. They are sweet, although they do not contain extra calories.
