How to have sex with a virgin

From a young age, the girl tries to speak so that they take care of their honor from a young age. These words have great meaning. Ladies usually after they become interested in young people think about sex. At first glance, everything is clear. The unknown is both scary and exciting at the same time. Many are afraid of the first sex because of the possible pain. But it is not always the case. For most girls, everything goes smoothly.

Doctors recommend sexual intercourse after 18 years of age. By this age, the entire reproductive system is already fully mature. It is important that the lady understands why she is doing this and with whom. If there are doubts, it is better not to lose your virginity.

Sex is a kind of obstacle on the way to complete trust. In a normal relationship, making love strengthens the relationship and makes better rapport. If you doubt a partner, it is better not to rush. Here are some more motives that push a girl to lose her virginity:

Curiosity.

Naivete.

For the sake of experiment. For check.

For a dispute.

The desire to quickly become like everyone else.

To get new sensations.

The thirst will be affirmed and raise self-esteem.

What is not recommended to do at the time of the first sex?

Making love while very drunk.

To take on the role of the first guy an experienced, but new person to you. This happens because there is an opinion that a virgin guy will ruin everything in bed. As a result, the lady goes to bed with an unfamiliar guy. But her expectations are not met. It doesn’t matter if the guy has experience or not, the main thing is that he loves and appreciates you.

A guy who is lucky enough to deflower a girl should understand the following:

The partner has little experience.

Afraid of pain.

She is impressive.

Can get mental or physiological trauma if any mistake suddenly occurs.

Some men think that the sooner they get it done, the better. But this interpretation is fundamentally wrong. Such behavior can push the girl away from you. She may also think that you are a big egoist. In the matter of the first sex, delicacy is needed.

The first step is to lead a simple relationship without intimacy for several months. Then invite the girl to have sex, move on to something more. If she agrees to have sex, then ask her how she imagines it. As a result, you will get a clear algorithm of actions and the girl will be happy.

If you are having sex with a virgin for the first time, then you will need the following:

Examine the lady's body. Find out what her pain threshold is.

Study various information on the Internet on this topic.

Get tested at the hospital for STDs. This is necessary in order not to worry about your health and girls.

Don't force a girl to have sex. If she is not in a hurry to have sex with you, then she is not ready yet. Usually, at the first intimacy, girls rarely get pleasure. Don't blame her for being very frigid.

Always follow these three tips:

Don't be rude.

Never ignore her request.

Take your time.

Every virgin dreams of having the perfect first time. Usually, the preparation for this case falls entirely on the guy. Every little thing matters here. If there is a failure, then the next time the girl will no longer want to have sex.

Anxiety before the first intimacy is the norm. To reduce anxiety, try to create a relaxing environment. That night, there should be no distracting neighbors or phone calls. You need to retire where no one would get you.

Before this business at the very beginning of the evening, it is recommended to watch a funny comedy or a romantic movie. This will help the girl to get a little distracted and forget. You can drink some wine and eat it with light food.

You can turn on relaxing music and give the lady of the heart a massage. Talk to the girl on some non-intimate topic. Then you can invite your girlfriend to take a bath and then offer to have sex.

Stay with the girl one on one

Start a conversation about where she would like to lose her virginity. It's just that some girls are not averse to doing it in an expensive hotel, while others consider it an insult. After all, as you know, prostitutes are driven there. Try to have in the room:

Spacious.

Comfortable.

Purely.

Romantic.

Comfortable.

You should think of something with unexpected guests. If someone comes, it will leave an unpleasant aftertaste for both of you. For romance, you can use a garland, candles, flowers, incense sticks. Essential oils are also a great way to enhance a romantic evening.

In the bedroom, prepare an extra set of linen. Also add extra pillows. And in the bathroom, bring a bathrobe and clean towels.

So that constraint does not spoil sexual intercourse, it would be desirable to already know in advance how you both look without clothes. Examine each other's body, and understand at what points there are sensitive areas. Get yourself in рut suitable underwear and sprinkle with a pleasant perfume. The girl in this sees responsibility in everything. Therefore, she will easily agree to lose her virginity. The lady should be excited already from the appearance of the man.

In order for the process of arousal to only increase, we recommend playing with fruits. Spread grapes, strawberries and other delicious berries on different parts of her body. Preferably boneless. Kiss those places where there was a berry. Try to get her to agree to give you a massage, and then you give her. All this will excite the girl very much.

Unlike guys, girls with arousal are very difficult. To excite a virgin will have to spend about 1 hour. Arousal for a virgin is very important. After all, then there will be a lot of lubrication in her vagina and the man's sexual organ will be easy to enter and exit.

You can give her passionate kisses. Squeeze your chest and hips very passionately. Pay attention to her reaction. If she behaves constricted, then this is a sign that it is too early to immerse your dick in her. When you kiss her, whisper compliments to her. Admire her smell, hair, skin, figure. Such behavior on your part will help remove awkwardness and tightness from her.

If the girl actively responds to your caresses, then proceed to remove her clothes. Do everything smoothly and carefully. Don't tear her clothes. It is better to save such a passion for future sexual contacts with her. It is also recommended to remove your clothes, but as a last resort. After all, it won't take you much time. Before taking off her underwear, ask again if she wants it? As soon as you hear the answer "Yes", then continue on. Now you can do petting or cunnilingus. Although you can not do this.

As soon as you understand that the girl is already very turned on, start working with the genitals. It is better not to enter with sharp jolts. But we also do not recommend tightening. Better, as smoothly as possible, enter the member inside. When you feel an obstacle, then just one push will be enough. At this moment, it is better to distract your beloved by kissing her on the lips. After overcoming the obstacle, give the girl time to feel new sensations. Continue back and forth only after she agrees to it.

When the process of deflowering is over, you must understand that there may not be blood. Each girl's hymen has a different thickness. Some of the first sex hurts, while others do not feel anything at all. Don't scold your girlfriend for not having blood. This can not always happen, and indeed the hymen could not be torn, but stretched.

After the completion of sexual intercourse, the lady should go to the shower, change her underwear and use a pad. The man should at this moment lay down new underwear and go to her in the shower. Then you can wash each other, and then wrap it well in a bathrobe and take it to the bed.