20 techniques for effective seduction

1. Tune in to the desired state. We seduce in a state of readiness for pleasure, in the so-called state of allowing. No man will miss a woman who radiates sexuality and her inner “I want”. It's not about clothes or behavior, but about the inner mood. You will never confuse it with something else, because it is in this state that you are in a slight arousal, as during foreplay, and your eyes burn with a special light.

2. Use makeup with emphasis on lips. Let hits about the eyes come from each iron, let them pass by the ears. Bright (red) lips are an attribute of seductresses of all time. They draw attention to what a woman is saying, arousing the ear of a man.

3. Customize your voice. The seductress speaks in a voice coming from the lower abdomen. The "sexy" voice is lower than usual. The mechanism is quite simple: the more stress or excitement, the higher the voice. A low voice evokes a feeling of depth, confidence and calmness in the interlocutor.

4. Speak slower. A woman who blurts out words at the speed of a machine gun does not arouse desire in men. Fast speech rather indicates frivolity, nervousness, self-doubt. The seductive woman speaks slowly, alternating words with breath, as if savoring a lollipop.

5. Speak quietly. A loud voice can be associated with aggression and cause rejection or (worse still) aggression in response. He gives out excitement and fears, which have very little in common with temptation. In the famous film "The Honest Courtesan" the phrase "the voice of a woman is fraught with temptation" sounded. This is true, but remember that only a properly tuned voice has this incredible effect.

6. Breathe out. If you want your speech to flow like a stream and fascinate, hypnotize a man, use the "inhale - hold - exhale (sound)" technique. So, you take a deep breath (preferably through a barely open mouth), then hold your breath for a second and start speaking with an exhalation. Try to pronounce a couple of phrases like this under the recorder, and you will notice how your speech has become smoother, softer, deeper and, of course, more seductive.

7. Speak with an open mouth. Have you heard the expression "look into the mouth"? So, a real seductress speaks in such a way that a man is ready to listen to her and look at her endlessly. When you speak with an open mouth, it seems that the speech is not finished, it flows, it spreads. Imagine that you have a runny nose, and you are forced to breathe only through your mouth, but in such a way that no one notices this (teeth are open, lips are slightly parted).

8. Use "delicious" words. From the words that fall into the ears of a man, his subconscious mind creates a fantasy - a picture of your love. Imagine what scenario will come out if you use the words "bitter", "disgusting", "bad", "hard". And now replace them with others: “sweet”, “spicy”, “spicy”, “soft”, “gentle”, “enveloping”, “nice”. Use as many expressions as we can to describe food and pleasure in conversation. This is what really caresses the ear of a man, and these associations from now on will be associated with you.

9. Speak in one-two-three. In ordinary life, we are used to speaking one or two, for example, “Let's go for a walk”, “It was interesting”, “It's delicious”, but the speech of the seductress should be drawn out and smooth. A similar effect is achieved using the ability to speak one, two, three, for example: "Let's go for a walk", "It was incredibly interesting", "It's amazingly delicious." There is a difference?

10. Don't forget good manners. The seductress behaves like a true lady, she is slow and fluid in her movements, she knows her own worth. Knows how to savor food, tasting, smelling and enjoying every bite. And allows the man next to her to feel like a real gentleman.

11. Be positive. An eternally aching woman with problems is completely uninteresting to a man. If you decide to seduce, then forget about your problems and seduce. If you decide to discuss your problems and complain about life, forget about seduction. Problems and whining can cause pity, a desire to help, a desire to protect, but not a desire to possess the woman herself. Moreover, the desire to help precludes the desire for intimacy. Keep in mind when in the old fashioned way you will be guided by the installation "the strength of a woman is in her weakness." Do not go too far, trying to pity with your helplessness.

12. Use "secret" gestures. A man reacts to our movements, for him this is one of the signals of your readiness, which he perceives on a subconscious level. Inconspicuously stroking yourself in the neck and décolleté, twisting your hair around your finger, licking your lips - all this speaks of your desire. You should not actively gesticulate during a conversation - otherwise you will be perceived ... as an aggressive competitor.

13. Use the right postures. If your posture is too tight, the man will consider this unnaturalness and regard it as a desire to please, and not as a sexual appeal. The seduction position is natural and relaxed, you should need to be comfortable. For example, you sit with your legs crossed, the shoe is playfully removed from the heel of one of the legs and sways - such a position can hypnotize a man. Let me remind you of the basic things: a pose with the body moving forward speaks of interest, with the body moving back or hands in the lock - about closeness and not being ready to make contact.

14. Learn massage techniques. If you want to seduce your man, then you can not do without erotic massage. Bright memorable massage techniques of a geisha or tantric massage will not leave a man indifferent. You will get not only excitement, but also brighter sex in the end. Hint: don't forget to admire your partner's body in the process, accompanying the relaxing movements with compliments.

15. Create an image. A short skirt and deep cleavage have nothing to do with seduction. In my opinion, these things have a completely different message. The appearance of a real seductress is thought out to the smallest detail, harmoniously emphasizes the merits and hides the flaws, unpretentious and unflashy, giving a feeling of absolute naturalness.

16. Wake up your fantasy. A skilled seductress knows how to think in images. Read literature that excites your imagination, opens up new horizons.

17. Learn the techniques of sex. Without them, nowhere. Men are very demanding these days. A skilled lover will always be a magnet to her: it is important that a woman develops in her skills, becoming a discovery for her beloved every time. If you eat scrambled eggs for breakfast every day, then after a while you will want to eat at least porridge.

18. Learn to enjoy your body. A woman who does not know how to enjoy herself and her body cannot deliver this pleasure to a man. Men see and feel this feminine constraint, it repels them. Many women put the responsibility for their pleasure on a man, but this is fundamentally wrong. Your enjoyment is only your responsibility.

19. Take up dancing. Dancing liberates the body, gives it the opportunity to relax. By the way, dance has always been one of the attributes of seduction, hasn't it? A smoothly moving beautiful female body is almost the highest pleasure for the eyes of a man.

20. Take care of your horizons. The heroine of the film "Secrets of a Courtesan" uttered the famous phrase: "For a woman, a rare and great gift is education." The ability to speak on various topics and a sense of humor have always been valued by men in women.