Everything You Should Know About Threesomes, Foursomes, and

When it comes to engaging in group sex for the first time, there's a lot to keep in mind, knowing where to start or exactly what's going on. That's why we've put together a guide to find tips on how to get the most out of any party game.

Threesome

Whether you and your partner are considering an open relationship or you're single, but the idea of playing with two other people at the same time turns you on, a threesome might be just what you're looking for. Threesomes are great for couples who want to explore their sexuality and attract someone new to both partners. A threesome may involve engaging someone just once or on a more regular basis.

Depending on what you do, they are not limited to one gender or sexuality as they can be enjoyed by all parties involved and the same is true for other types of group sex.

Foursome sex, also called "swing" for those in a relationship, can involve sex between two couples changing partners at the same time, but it can also include a couple and two single people or four single people. Usually the swing takes place in the same setting or in the same room, where both couples are present and even participate in poses of four.

Foursomes are a great option for couples who want to have sex with other people in a relationship or in a well-defined dynamic.

Group sex includes sexual practices such as group masturbation, gangbang, and even double penetration. Hosting a sex party can be private for friends and acquaintances, although there are also adult clubs that regularly host orgies for patrons (some even have memberships!). Group play is usually a casual sexual encounter for those involved, as they tend to focus more on pleasure than emotional connection.

When it comes time to descend, it can be hard to know where to start. Follow these tips to start enjoying group sex:

Be Bold but Respectful - Instead of sitting down and making awkward small talk, take the initiative to get started by directly asking someone to join you in a personal game. If mutual agreement has been obtained, proceed to the next step.

Since there is no right or wrong way to group sex, explore different sex positions to see what works best for the group. You can form a chain for everyone to either give or receive, ask to be the center of attention (or have someone else be) or any other combination that everyone likes. Just don't forget to take breaks so you can see how others enjoy each other!

Take your time - Because the experience of group sex can be overwhelming for first-time participants, be sure to take your time. Get completely immersed in both giving and receiving, and swap partners every few minutes for continuous streams of fun for everyone.

Be thoughtful - Make sure you don't leave anyone behind and check in to make sure everyone is comfortable and enjoying themselves. This is certainly a situation where open lines of communication are important.

While it may not work for everyone, if you have the option of taking someone with you to show you the ropes and help you get your bearings, it can help improve your first experience.

If you're hosting a sex party, it's important to talk about logistics ahead of time, such as what areas will be closed, and make sure you have all the supplies you need on hand - not just sex-related items, but things like water and towels.

Sharing important information with guests ahead of time can help everyone prepare to be comfortable and ready to enjoy.

Set boundaries (such as whether condoms will be available, whether drugs or alcohol will be allowed, etc.) and have a safe word.

If you're going to an organized sex party, learn the rules or general sex party etiquette beforehand so you'll be prepared.

Everyone should be required to ask and obtain consent before participating in any opportunity that may present itself.

Getting started can be awkward, even if all the details have been discussed before, as people can be in their own heads and feel too shy to have sex directly. Order. Be patient with yourself and others.

It can be less intimidating or overwhelming if you start with one person and then move on to two, then three, four, or whatever you feel comfortable with.

Although there is a risk of STIs with any sexual contact, there is an increased risk of transmission when you have sex with more than one sexual partner at the same time. It is important to practice safe sex when you have sex with multiple people.

Group sex can evoke many different emotions, from exciting to overwhelming and pleasurable. With the right preparation - both mental and physical - we hope to set you up for a successful first group sex experience.

There is no right way to have group sex, so feel free to explore the different activities and configurations and see what you like best. Remember to stay in the moment and have fun, and always ask (and get) consent.