How to do cuneelingus

Most women get their orgasms from clitoral stimulation, so all your attention should be focused around and on the clitoris. Only in the cinema, a girl must have penetration after him, so that sex is real. And in life, this is the shortest path to the female orgasm. Therefore, do not treat cunnilingus only as an aperitif.

Sexologist Vanessa Marin claims that many women experience discomfort during cunnilingus. One of the reasons is unrealistic ideas of both men and women about the sight, smell and taste of female genitalia.

The vagina is not a rose garden. She cannot look and smell like a rose.

If you are the type who compares women's genitals to fish or something, please don't do cunnilingus. You don't really want this. If you are ready for oral sex, but your partner is shy, do not put pressure on her, but try to talk.

Many women experience discomfort during cunnilingus. For some, it is associated with complexes about their own smell and taste, or the appearance of their genitals. Others worry that the man doesn't like doing it. Still others do not like to be the center of attention and cannot relax. As a rule, a woman is hypercritical about her body, so your eyes, nose and mouth in her most sensitive and vulnerable area cause at least a slight resistance.

Of course, you cannot change the self-perception of a partner at once. But you can help her relax. In many ways, success will depend on your perception of oral sex. Therefore, let the girl know that you take the process seriously, that for you this is not a prelude to the “main part” and that it really turns you on.

Cunnilingus can give not only improved relationships, but also sexually transmitted diseases: gonorrhea, herpes, syphilis, human papillomavirus and others.

If there are no certificates from a venereologist, then barrier contraceptives are also needed for oral sex.

Foreplay before cunnilingus is another way to relax and excite a girl. Plus, this is simply necessary: the clitoris is too sensitive, taking it impudently is not the best solution. Vanessa Marin advises spending time kissing, hugging, touching, talking about your fantasies. And only when the woman is sufficiently excited, go to the genitals. But even there you should not rush: start with light movements of the tongue up and down.

Please note: even after such preparation, the partner will reach orgasm in an average of 20 minutes. So take care of your comfort.

Make sure your body is in a comfortable stretched position. Try to position your lips and tongue at a 45-degree angle instead of a 90-degree angle to make it easier. To do this, rest your gums on the partner’s body, and your head on her leg. To make this possible, her legs must be close enough to each other.

If you don't like doing cunnilingus lying down, you can kneel by the bed. But whatever method you choose, make sure that you are comfortable and ready to perform all the actions without haste.