Sexy finger play or what fingering is

Sexologists call fingering a sexual game in which pleasure is delivered exclusively by hands (fingers). This could include passionate immersions in the “inner world” of a partner, or light pressure on erogenous zones, stroking with just the pads of the fingers.

Representatives of the fair sex according to their sexual essence are divided into two groups. The first one wildly likes masturbation and self-satisfaction. They go crazy when a man caresses them “there” with his hands. The second group cannot imagine how anything other than a phallus can penetrate the vagina.

It cannot be said that any of the groups are abnormal. The following conclusions can be drawn:

1. You don't have to love fingering. You should never do anything that causes discomfort in sex, much less disgust.

2. It's hard to know if you like fingering until you try it. If a woman resists the penetration of your fingers into her womb, this does not mean that you are doing something wrong. Perhaps she is simply embarrassed by your penetrations. Or maybe you press too hard, penetrate roughly, do it quickly or monotonously. Invite her to do it herself. Believe me, a good “warm-up” is guaranteed for both of you.

3. Ask your friend to practice fingering on her own, but with the condition that she will definitely demonstrate her achievements to you. Let her decide what she likes best about technology and show her.

4. You might be surprised, but men get fingering too and they love it! Do you like experiments in your intimate life? Let your partner stimulate your G-spot, starting with stroking from the outside and gradually working your way inside. And don't be embarrassed! The pleasure is definitely worth it.

As you understand, safety is paramount. Compliance with it is a guarantee of pleasure. Three components are important:

-personal hygiene;

-good, high-quality lubricant (lubricant);

- well-groomed, trimmed nails.

Remember that the last point is the most important. Be sure to trim your nails, but they should not only be short, but also have smooth edges and no hangnails. You should absolutely not bite your nails; simply cutting them with scissors is not an option. Afterwards you need to carefully file them down and examine them for any protruding dried pieces of skin (hangnails).

Run your nails over your face - did you scratch it? Then everything is fine. If you feel that something is still interfering, double-check. Even a minor hangnail can ruin a good evening. Any unevenness can lead to microtrauma.

Pay attention to the lubricant. Buy good lubricant, don't skimp on it. It will make the sliding more gentle, soft, caressing the clitoris and the penetration itself will be much more pleasant.

There is no need to talk about hygiene - both partners must observe it. Watch your hands and nails - there should be no dirt under them.

-Get alone with a friend, create a romantic atmosphere and get down to business.

-Good position

This is the first thing to do. Make your friend sit more comfortably, spread her knees to the sides to maximize access to intimate places. The pose is definitely not for a virgin or a modest person, but it allows you to open up and make the task easier for you. You will see everything, no need to look for hidden places.

The second option is to lay her on her side, facing you. Caress her breasts with your hands, gradually lowering them under her panties. Ask her to tuck her leg, not forgetting to kiss the girl constantly.

The third option is to lay the girl with her back to you, ask her to bend her leg. Kiss her tender neck and caress her nipples with your other hand. With your other hand you can touch the clitoris, penetrate the vagina and anus.

You absolutely need to discuss all the nuances with your friend before fingering. Ask her to show you what she likes best. But if she is silent, don’t get lost. Look for all the sensitive spots yourself, so to speak, go by trial, but not error.

Find out what exactly you can't do. Perhaps she doesn’t like it when her clitoris is actively stroked or the up and down movements are annoying. Do not push under any circumstances! Change your fingers when you masturbate your friend's clitoris and watch her reaction. Ask if she wants to caress the anus, also do it with different fingers, without penetrating deeply. Girls like the caresses of the sphincter, stretch it a little, but do not be aggressive.

If a girl does not immediately agree to very frank caresses, do not insist, let her down gradually, be sure to talk about your feelings at such a spicy moment. Not about love (although we need to talk about that too), but about our own feelings.