WHAT IS THE SECRET OF ELDERLY COUPLES?

When you are in a long-term relationship, routine duties day after day begin to affect the mind. Over time, it becomes more and more difficult to take advantage of hormonal tides, but this should not be related to the lack of great sex. There are some tricks that people aged need to know to bring passion back to the bedroom, kitchen, on the beach or where they prefer to have sex!

People are programmed to always look for something new and experiment. Boredom enters everyday life when we stop putting feelings into what we do. We are sure that in your younger years you did it on the plane, in the car or even in the park. Over time, however, the pains on the body begin to call, and some people use the worn joints as an excuse, as they do not do as well in bed as before. One of the couples who participated in the study said: "My partner and I have been together for decades. When we want to have sex, we always try to diversify things. Sometimes we choose a new place at home and try new poses or even dare to use sex toys. Even if things don't work out right, we're still having fun. This experimentation brings people together in an interesting way and we recommend it to every couple our age (50+)."

Sex is a kind of appetite that should be filled at every opportunity. It is also important to train the body and bring it new "tastes". Just as we get tired of eating the same thing every day, so does monotonous sex. Whether you change the room or even the lighting can have a big impact on the overall experience. Kinsley University offers a special online quiz that offers new ideas to couples, according to the answers to the questions on the site. However, it is important to remember that communication plays a much more important role than "techniques". Older couples should have a healthy emotional connection and partners should trust each other enough not to be afraid to experiment.

Janice, who was also involved in the study, said she has been with her partner for 30 years. If she doesn't like the way they have sex, she always starts the conversation like this: "I love you and you make me feel great, but I'd like to try the following thing...". She says that it is very important to express both our love and dissatisfaction with certain things that our partner does unintentionally.

It turns out that laughter is a very powerful aphrodisiac. If you want to take advantage of its properties, however, you need to learn to laugh at each other or even to yourself, of course not in an offensive way. Kelly, 50, from New York, said: "Sometimes my husband and I try new positions that turn out to be a complete failure. If my neck suddenly stiffens, his painful joints will call at the same moment. It happened to buy me erotic underwear and I could only put one breast in it, which is both fun and slightly nerve-wracking. But the important thing is that we always laugh in the end, which in itself brings us just as close as sex."

Although we are fans of spontaneous sex, sometimes it is acceptable to plan things. It's the same with meetings – you schedule a date and plan for a whole week what you will wear, where you will go and how amazing the sex will be after the restaurant. Impatience accumulates for days and on the fateful day all the emotion is poured into the bedroom at once, which usually means great sex. So if you want to reignite passions with your longtime partner, why not set a day for sex? Light candles, play nice music and indulge each other in the late afternoon!

When you have been together for 20 years or more, we are sure that you often think about how you know everything about your beloved. Over time, however, both the physique and the psyche of a person change, including the appetite for sex. Sometimes you may need to come to the rescue of a vibrator or a little lube, even Viagra. You should not be ashamed if you need "aids" in the bedroom, but on the contrary – it is important to discuss things with your partner and understand what he/she expects. As mentioned above, communication is an important part of any relationship. If your partner asks you to make a change in your sex schedule instead of sulking or just accepting it as a fait accompli, ask about the reason. Maybe your partner is just implying that they would like to try something different.

One of the most common reasons for one of the two to cheat is the lack of attention from the beloved, and the relationship is last on the list of priorities. If you've been with your loved one for years, you certainly have bad habits that distract you from them. Therefore, we suggest ignoring the TV during dinner, turn off the sound of the phone and direct all your attention to your beloved. You'd be surprised how satisfying it is to chat all night without ever getting distracted by a match or movie. Thus, the experience before sex predisposes to more intimacy in the bedroom later in the evening. It is important to note that love has no shelf life, and the countless opportunities for experiments in sex are your golden opportunity to materialize those youthful times again!