SEX MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE

Date: 2023-07-14 Author: Karina Ziganova Categories: BLOG 18+
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When we don't know enough sad man
"She starts giggling like a teenage girl when I explain to her how to turn me on. She must think it's cute, but it's offensive to me — not only is there no trick prepared to predispose me, but she shows no interest when I tell her how to do it."

In this case, he is right – a woman should know at least the basics of the anatomy of the penis, such as which part of the penis is most sensitive. It is true that whatever excited George will not excite Joro, but the main places are more or less universal. And just because men watch with chicks who blankly say "Teach me!" sucking lollipops doesn't mean you should behave like this.

To put it metaphorically, sex is a bit like writing on a computer. We can all read something on the keyboard using two fingers, but we'll never be as good as the guy who uses all ten, right?

When we think men read minds
"I asked her if she was done and she said no. I asked her why and she said, "I wanted oral sex and you didn't. You should have known I wanted it."

Men, unfortunately, do not have a crystal ball and can not predict what exactly we want at the moment. The bad thing is that this is a double-edged sword – if you constantly tell your husband what you want, he may think you think he is stupid. But take risks, it's better to say that you asked for it and didn't get it than to shake something like, "Well, I thought that?"

When I like sex only at the beginning sad man no sex
"All my friends have been like that. It's paradise at first, but after we've been together for a while, she pulls away sexually and shows no enthusiasm."

In this case, both are responsible. Some men think we're cheating on them with sex as we enter the relationship and feel we're in the bag, which is probably true for some percentage of women. Most often, however, the problem is that women get bored with sex when it becomes predictable. And when it becomes predictable, a woman needs more physical and emotional stimulation. No one dreams of having the same dinner every night for the rest of their lives, right? Sex should be varied and therefore neither women nor men should sulk – if you want good sex, you have to put a little effort, and not only in the beginning!

When he has to do everything
“She often lies on the bed without making any effort to move. It's like I'm having sex with a doll or a corpse!”

Some women not only think that a man should initiate sex, but also do all the work. You don't have to do everything during sex, but for example, you can take control during foreplay. If you really want to impress him, initiate sex when he least expects it.

When we are paranoid about our appearance
"She hates sex on one side because her tummy looked fat. She didn't want to be on top because her breasts looked weird. Sometimes she doesn't even want to go to the bathroom if I don't promise not to look at her butt."

That's the biggest mistake women make. Surprisingly, many men don't care at all about the shape of our bodies — at least not as much as we think. Our idea of a perfect body is not his, remember. If you jump into bed thinking how bad you look, your sex life will suffer. Women with a positive attitude towards their appearance say that they have an orgasm on average 73% of the time they have sex. For others, the frequency is less than 42%. The important thing about sex is what happens on the inside, not on the outside. If you constantly try to be in a good posture, you will never get aroused because your brain will be busy with other things. Good lovers feel good in their skin!
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