NEVER SAY NEVER – OR WHY SEXUAL DESIRE IS FLUID

Have you ever said that you'll never try something just because you don't like it? Of course you are. We've all done it. And it's perfectly normal that you don't like something - everyone has a taste. The choices we make in our personal lives paint a picture of who we are as individuals and sometimes we are very careful what we say to others with them. because we suffer from a certain prejudice or lack of experience.

People say that human sexuality is a spectrum, but it is much more liberating for the imagination to imagine it as a liquid that is unlimited in its directions of motion. The liquid takes the form of the container in which you place it. How would you look at life and what life can give you if you accept that you haven't wanted to try something yet, simply because you haven't come to a good time, or haven't met the right person?

 

Different people are able to unlock in us different aspects of who we are that we didn't even believe we had, or that we suppressed for a long time, hiding them from people we think won't be perceived or can't respond to us. People like to feel accepted by their group (even if it consists of one person) and would push back anything that contradicts its seeming boundaries. Often these are our own boundaries that we project onto the rest. But when we are confronted by a person who from the very beginning is open to something we have pushed back in our minds, a new field of expression suddenly appears, a new area for exploration, a new vessel for our liquid.

Sexual arousal is biochemistry; The body doesn't care if you use a big, black or a tiny heart-shaped clitoral — the brain cares because it guides fantasy.

 

If you've ever said to yourself, "I'll never want to try this and so in the bedroom," think about why. What's the reason? Is it because the person in front of you doesn't like it, doesn't understand it or predisposes you, or because you think it puts you in a bad light, or are you ashamed to do it? Usually, the answer is somewhere out there. A man is what he thinks about when he is alone and there is no danger of anyone condemning his actions - so you will most easily understand what attracts you if you are just alone with yourself and be honest.

 

It's nice to know that you are free to try anything – with all people, at all stages of your life. We do not live in an isolated moment of time; We are not constant as people. Yes, we may have permanent characteristics that define us, but they depend entirely on new information every day, as well as our reaction to it. And she... It can change at any moment. It's liquid, just like our sexuality.