FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE ASHAMED TO TALK DIRTY

In medical language, we talk about "penis", "vagina", "testicles", "ejaculation", etc. As you can imagine, however, "I passionately desire to ejaculate in my moistened vagina" may seem sexy to only two biology professors. Although it is not impossible, a large number of men are not aroused by the word "penis" and would prefer the use of another kind of "language".

Here, according to Uncle Freud, enter all words that have any dual meaning, for example:

squirrel = vagina, kitten = vagina, tool = member, lollipop = member

This, in principle, is the preferred language in.

For lovers of Kama Sutra and 1001 nights, the fairytale language will help you tell the story of its sunny temple with white pearls, which enters the fiery dragon and touches the sapphire of eternal yin and yang... Words such as "staff", "lotus", "ions", "knight", "princess", "dragon", etc. are part of the so-called. fairytale language. However, few people can remain serious while listening to such an outpouring from the time of Scheherazade.

According to the average good upbringing, here are collected the words that cause shame in us and from a young age we are forbidden to use them – cock, pussy, hole, fucking, fucking, etc. People find it most difficult to use this language, and if their partner happens to say such a thing, they are very likely to feel disrespected and offended.

Do you recognize yourself in any of the four points? Maybe you and your partner have overcome the shame of using these kinds of words during sex. But if you can't twist your tongue to say, "me, my chivalry!" don't despair — there's another way!

One way is to rehearse the use of dirty words until you "shiver." Our upbringing often requires us to be ashamed of these words, as we associate them with negative emotions. If you still can't get used to saying a certain word, you can try using the same words in a foreign language. Because it is not our mother tongue, we are not used to associating other people's words with the same emotions. For example, if you say "fuck" or "pussy," you won't feel the same way you do with "fucking" and "pussy," will you?

It is quite possible to simply remove all words and replace them with personal pronouns. As unethical as it may sound in some aspect, mentally accept your partner as her sexual organ. Yes, it sounds crazy, but it really works for the more shy. Instead of saying, "Your penis is so hard," say, "You're so hard!" Here are a few examples:

I want you inside me! You're so wet! You're incredibly soft! I can feel you deeply!

And so on...

Keep in mind that talking dirt is not an indispensable part of sexual play. It is not fatal not to do it, and even if you get used to using different words, it is good to diversify from time to time.