ONE NIGHT STAND: ETIQUETTE FOR ONE-NIGHT SEX
Date: 2023-07-10 Author: Karina Ziganova Categories: BLOG 18+
Who will finish first?Sex for one night
Don't think about it at all. The best thing about single sex is that it's selfish. If you before him/her... Well, what to do.
Make rules from the beginning. If you're going to have sex with an ex-boyfriend, make sure no one harbors secret feelings about reuniting. Emotional attachment and non-binding sex don't work at all.
At home or at home?
At your place. This way you will feel more secure and all amenities will be on your side. If you're staying with the other person, tell a friend exactly where you are.
Find out who will sleep where after sex. If you're at your place, it's better to say you have an important conference in the morning than shoot yourself right after putting your pants on. Even if sex sucked, it's still not polite.
Bring condoms! The last thing you want is to catch herpes or another disease from a complete stranger.
Clothes and looks?
Erotic underwear is not reserved only for couples, but you still need to put some boundary. Put on a sexy sling under your jeans, but you don't have to dress in the style of "I'm your light girl for tonight."
Take care of your body the way you would with a permanent partner. This does not mean to squeeze every hair, but do not neglect yourself. Non-binding sex means your partner won't spare themselves peppery marks about your appearance.
Bad boys
Ladies need to be understanding if the "little" falls asleep before he has done his job. Some men strain themselves too much before sex with a stranger, and it affects them.
Choose your partners carefully. Numbers are suitable as long as they are not in your circle of acquaintances. So they look for the same thing that you do, no one gets hurt and everyone is happy.
Do not be afraid to say "No" if after removing clothes you notice rashes (be they on the body or intimate organs), swellings and other disturbing things that could signal venereal disease.
Be careful what you say
Truly. If you blur out something like "I love you!" or someone else's name, it's too late, and it's not like you can say "but I was joking " after that.
Don't say, "I don't usually do that." He either thinks it happens often or he doesn't. And it doesn't matter to you.
Don't pour out your emotions. If you have something to share, do it with a friend or girlfriend, do not bring your dramas into the bedroom.
Don't turn the conversation after sex into cross-examination: "It was really great... "Do you sleep with everyone on the first night?" The person will feel attacked and not only lie to you, but may be hostile to you.
Don't count. If it comes to who by how much, you will lie anyway. He will multiply by three, and it will divide by three. You both lose.
Don't be painfully honest. It's better to say you haven't experienced some love than to say, "All I wanted was sex, thanks, don't call me again."
Don't steal anything from each other's apartment.
Don't come out with the number. "I'll call you." It doesn't make sense.
What not to mention:
Do not mention one eyebrow (it is desirable that it is owned by the man), soft belly, small legs, large ankles, swaying hips and penis size. You'll have sex, you won't sign up for supermodels.
Do not hope for tenderness. One-night stands rarely involves cuddling, sweet talk, and revelations, and if they exist, they're probably the fruit of the hormonal storm and will melt away soon. No wonder he falls asleep immediately and she asks you to leave. It hurts, but you're big people, and you'll learn.
It's show time!
Show off your trademark! Make that variation of the "rider" pose that you have invented yourself, so that she will remember you.
Beware of the extremes of the plot! If you want to handcuff him/her to the bed, ask first if he's rolled. Otherwise, he may think that he will turn from a lover into a hostage.
Do not refrain from one or two praises. Smile mischievous when he unbuttons his clothes. Just because sex is non-binding doesn't mean you have to be as insensitive as a piece of wood, on the contrary!
Overnight sex isn't for everyone. If you see it as a hope of reuniting with an ex-boyfriend, just don't hope - then someone will feel cheated. You need to seriously consider this step, because non-binding sex means just sex - only sex, after which everything is as if you have never known each other.
