EDGING: ORGASM CONTROL

In a world where we strive to get everything right away — especially orgasm — it may seem somewhat strange to postpone achieving the ultimate goal. However, the reason some people like to postpone their orgasm is that it will prolong the pleasure and the act itself, and for many of them the will be much more intense and satisfying after the brief abstinence.

Many men are probably already familiar with postponing orgasm as a way to satisfy their partner longer. They achieve this effect with all sorts of techniques, one of which is thinking of "non-sexy" thoughts to distract them from the hot naked body in front of them. However, that doesn't mean they can't enjoy the same stimulation! Even a small change in the idea of activity, of fantasy, can change your whole experience.

 

Of course, control over can also be part of a BDSM game. "Refusal of orgasm" is a common power practice in which the dominant brings his subordinate almost to orgasm, then ends stimulation. However, this is more difficult than it sounds! :)

 

The easiest way to control your orgasm is to try it alone. It will be extremely useful if you have already used a sex toy and know the reactions of your body. The toys are sensitive to control and you can easily amplify and decrease the power of stimulation just before you run down the slide of pleasure.

 

To exercise, try to exclude your old habits that lead you directly to orgasm every time. Use a gentler vibration instead of the maximum you're used to, change the angle or try with your left hand instead of your right hand. You may start to lose patience at some point, but that's exactly the goal - to see how far you can go!

After you manage to "give up" your orgasm several times, you can deservedly indulge it! Feel its intensity and how much you wanted it! This effect can also be achieved with a partner, especially during oral sex. Experiment and have fun!