YOUR FIRST THREESOME

If you already have an open dialogue with your partner about sex, it will not be difficult for you to offer the idea of a threesome. For other couples, the conversation can be very difficult. In case your partner is not excited by the idea of a threesome, then for a while you may have to make "triples" yourself – in the company of both hands. Sometimes it's the risk of being honest. Whatever you do, don't pressure your partner. Sex is something personal, which means that you can not always find the golden mean. Doesn't mean no.

If your partner is open to the idea and wants you to invite a third person to your bed, you should still approach it carefully, especially the first time. It's probably best to mention a threesome as an opportunity and make sure your partner knows they're the most important person to you. Start talking about your fantasies and share this one about a threesome. If your partner shows you interest, offer him to live this fantasy together.

Before proceeding to action, you need to discuss what you want the third participant in the troika to be. Be a man or woman, someone you both know or a stranger, and all the other details that are important to both of you when choosing a new partner. Joining the sexual games of two people who have feelings for each other can be a very delicate situation. It can be both very awkward and very exciting for the guest participant. Once you've agreed with your partner on what the third person should be, it's important to find someone willing to participate, is enthusiastic, and comfortable with the idea. If you have an adventurous friend without prejudice, invite them to dinner and casually suggest that you and your partner are looking for a third person to be part of your sexual trio.

If you think the idea of inviting a friend isn't appropriate, you may also find a stranger to be part of your sexual fantasies. There are many websites that serve the needs of people looking for triples or swing links. Be sure to meet the guy before embarking on sexual pleasures, and of course, make sure that he is sexually healthy.

Now that your partner has agreed and you have found someone who is eager to be with you, it's time for carnal pleasures to begin! The most important thing to remember is that everyone should receive the same amount of attention. The goal is to satisfy everyone's desires and leave no one behind. There are so many things that can drive partners crazy from arousal and bring them to orgasm. While one is given oral love, the other may participate in foreplay with his fingers and tongue. Vaginal penetration can occur simultaneously with sex or with oral sex. Choose the combination that fits you, be creative and do the things that come from within. A threesome should be something nice and fun!

Unfortunately, joining a new partner in the relationship, even if only overnight, can have its consequences. Here are the biggest ones:

• Feeling lonely

It is possible for two of the partners to enjoy each other so much that the third person is left behind. It is important that everyone pay attention to this before you start and make sure that love will be shared between everyone.

• Oh, that jealousy!

Even if you think you want to participate in a threesome, the sight of your partner with another person can awaken unpleasant feelings in you. Think about it before embarking on the adventure. If that's not something you'll be able to handle with goodwill, threesomes probably aren't for you.

• Goodbye, Love!

In some cases, threesomes can end a relationship. While many people are just looking for something new and exciting for their love life, others are looking for something else, be it a different sex life or just a new partner. Having a threesome is a way that you can understand that the person you're with isn't meeting your needs, or even that there's something (or someone) better outside of your relationship.

• More partners, less respect

Participating in a threesome gives you a chance to see your partner in a new light, which is not always a good thing. As a result, you can see more clearly that a partner is not for you, at least not for a long-term relationship.

A threesome is a challenge to the idea that sex can only happen between two people. In many cases, sexual desire is something that can be mutual for three or more people, often with good results. But if you've ever been in a relationship, you probably know that it's very difficult to be constantly happy. When you involve another person, things can get hot. or become even more complex. So if having a threesome is something you dream of, you'll probably have to take that risk.