FELLATIO: HOW TO IMPRESS HIM
Date: 2023-07-02 Author: Karina Ziganova Categories: BLOG 18+
1. Know the material
The penis is the most sensitive part of a man, right after his ego. It is made up of erect tissue, which means that it is full of blood vessels that fill with blood every time something stimulates it indirectly (lips on the neck) or directly (hand in pants). The glans penis is the most delicate part - like the clitoris, it is loaded with nerve endings, so it needs to be given more attention. The foundation is less sensitive, but that doesn't mean it should be ignored, just that your main efforts should be focused. And remember, the penis is not a gear lever or a joystick, treat it like a puppy and it will thank you like ;)
2 . Choose a pose
The pose is mainly for your comfort, as the whistle can last 5 minutes, and it can reach half an hour. You can kneel in front of him, standing or sitting, or lean over him while he lies on his back. Make sure you're comfortable – you'll spend some time this way, and it will be frustrating if your leg goes numb just before it ends!
Active postures – you do most of the work. Your partner can lie down or sit on the bed, and you can kneel in front of him and begin to satisfy him. It is important that he is relaxed and that you are comfortable kneeling or lying down. He can also stand.
Passive postures - here you only open your mouth, while the partner gets the opportunity to move. You bend down comfortably and let your partner literally have sex with your mouth. Tell him how to move fast and hold him with your hands so he doesn't push his penis too far inside and trigger a nausea reflex.
3. Show what you can do
The mouth does what the vagina cannot. In fellatio, in addition to the oral cavity, lips, tongue, suction play a role. It's best to imagine that the penis is ice cream on a stick - suck it, lick it, examine it with your tongue, as if trying to pick up the cream flowing down it (you can add real cream!)
Pay special attention to the place where the glans penis connects to the body of the penis. He is extremely sensitive and the man will immediately react to touch.
Use your fingers to massage the base, watch your mouth, gently squeeze and relax. Use saliva and don't be afraid to "drool" – the more moisture, the more arousing oral love.
Deep throat is a technique that isn't for everyone, but you can always try it – the idea is to have the penis go as far into the mouth as possible until the head touches the throat. Humans have a natural nausea reflex, so do it slowly and patiently until you see if you succeed. You don't have to do it all the time - even one or two times is enough to excite him to the maximum.
Touch the testicles and perineal area (behind the testicles, in front of the anus) if it allows. This may make him even more excited. And don't forget - there are no teeth! Some men may like light biting, but only do it if he wants to. Imagine someone biting you unexpectedly!
4. Who is whom
Many people have different opinions about the dominant and dominant during fellatio. On the one hand, it is said that the man is dominant because the woman kneels and satisfies him with her mouth. In other cases, the woman is dominant because she has complete control over the most vulnerable part of the man's body. Find out what you and your partner want, and if you care about a certain role, play it!
5. When he cums
The age-old question of fellatio is whether sperm should swallow or not? Some women find it disgusting, others don't mind, so the decision depends entirely on your personal preferences. Polite gentlemen will probably warn you when they are ready. Then you will have to choose - what will you do with the sperm?
You can swallow - most men secrete no more than one teaspoon of sperm. The taste depends on your partner's eating habits. If the taste bothers you, ask him to take fruit more often and quit smoking.
It is very important that your partner is tested for sexually transmitted diseases, otherwise he may infect you with something unpleasant.
Of course, there are other options besides swallowing – you can spit out the (which is worse than swallowing if you're squeamish – this way you'll taste more), or you can let your partner on your arms, chest, another part of your body, or even on your face (watch your eyes).
In stopping oral sex, it's important to know when to stop. If you do this before or during, you can take away the pleasure. If you continue after it has emptied, it may be painful because the penis is very sensitive. It is best to stop mouth stimulation as soon as it starts to end, but continue to hold your hand until it ends.
6. Most Importantly: Have Fun
When you have oral sex with a man, you should have fun too! If you're feeling uncomfortable or not in the mood, don't get carried away at all. A man's pleasure will double if he sees that you like to satisfy him.
At first, you might be worried – well, that was the case when you had sex for the first time, right? The penis is not something to be afraid of, it is a part of your loved one and through it you can show your love. Warm up shortly before you start - caress it, massage it gently, watch the reaction with each touch. Lick, sniff, get used to it, because it's... The second most important part of the male body. Some even say it's the first...
Oral love should not become an obligation. It's all in the name of fun!
