Understanding Post-coital Sadness: The Emotional Aftermath of Intimacy
Date: 2023-11-27 Author: Dima Zakharov Categories: BLOG 18+
Unveiling Post-coital Melancholy
After the intimate moments fade, approximately 40% of individuals experience what is termed post-coital sadness or melancholy. This emotional aftermath, though not uncommon, remains a puzzling phenomenon. It engulfs individuals in a wave of emotions, leaving them feeling isolated and despondent.
The Enigmatic Source of Post-Sex Sadness
This melancholy can be veiled by retreating into darkness or even shared generously with one's partner. However, the scientific understanding behind why some individuals succumb to this emotional tide remains elusive. Researchers have identified three types of post-coital melancholy:
Feeling distanced from a partner more than desired.
Feeling unable to distance oneself from a closer partner.
Concerns about what others might think.
The first type is more commonly associated with women, the second with men, while the third, worrying about one's reputation, seems to be universal.
The Complexities of Intimacy
While it would be ideal for everyone to revel in the afterglow without remorse, the reality is far from it. Hence, it's essential to revisit the first law of sex: it's complicated, gloomy, and ambiguous. It's akin to leaning over murky waters, listening to its promises and threats, and yearning to leap despite all uncertainties.
The Bright Side: Sex and Happiness
Despite the emotional rollercoaster, studies conducted by the National Bureau of Economic Research in the United States have revealed a significant correlation between sexual activity and happiness. Those who engage in sexual activity tend to report higher levels of happiness irrespective of their sexual orientation.
