Masturbation vs Sex: Why Men Prefer One Over the Other and How to Solve Relationship Issues
Date: 2023-11-20 Author: Dima Zakharov Categories: NEWS 18+
Sexologist Explains Why Masturbation Can Replace Sex in Relationships
In recent days, many readers have been asking why some men prefer masturbation over sex in relationships. This phenomenon raises concerns among many partners, and we will try to delve into the reasons behind this occurrence.
According to the statements of sexologist and psychotherapist Dr. Vasily Shevlyakov, masturbation in men can become an issue when it starts to replace natural sexual activity in a relationship. This issue is highlighted in the context of a reader's complaint about a lack of attention from her partner due to his interest in masturbation.
Three Key Reasons: From Childhood Development to Anti-Anxiety Measures
The sexologist identifies three main reasons why men might choose masturbation over sex in relationships. Firstly, masturbation can serve as a means of sexual relief and solitude for quality relaxation, linked to their upbringing in a parent-child relationship model.
Secondly, masturbation can become a sort of "anti-anxiety measure." Men may resort to this method of self-soothing to alleviate psychoemotional tension, subsequently decreasing their natural arousal levels.
Thirdly, if a man is dissatisfied with the sexual aspect of his relationship, masturbation can be a "path of least resistance." This occurs when sex is perceived as a duty rather than a source of pleasure.
Problem Resolution: Why Generic Advice Falls Short
The sexologist emphasizes that general advice in such situations may prove ineffective. Instead, he recommends that couples facing similar issues seek the guidance of a professional sexologist. Only by understanding the root cause can they take steps to improve their sexual life and relationships.
