REASONS WHY WOMEN DON'T WANT SEX
Date: 2023-06-29 Author: Karina Ziganova Categories: BLOG 18+
1. She is tired / tense
All day he thinks about how he will hug next to his beloved and make sweet, sweet love with him. And now, evening comes, they snuggle up to the bed, but ... Her eyes close. Or her head buzzes with work problems that have plagued her at home. Or she had to run around the house and a small child all day, which she cannot do without her attention even for 2 minutes.All these things can be so tiring for a woman that after a few such days or weeks accumulate, the evenings become a time for sleep, not sex.
Solution: Split your responsibilities or invest in a relaxing weekend when the kids are with their grandparents.
2. She is depressed / has problems
No woman wants to have sex if she has a toothache, takes medications that suppress her libido, or is depressed and has a hard time getting out of bed in the morning. On the ladder of priorities, personal comfort always comes before sex.
Solution: unfortunately, the only method of action here is to consult with a specialist and a possible change of medications. And a lot of patience on your part.
3. She lacks self-esteem
If a woman feels unattractive, her reluctance to undress will dominate her desire to have sex. Women are extremely sensitive to appearance and are especially often compared to other women on social media. It's even worse if she catches you talking to a woman she thinks is more beautiful.
Solution: If you think she doesn't see how beautiful she is, help her by giving her more frequent compliments and giving positive attention to her body. If she really needs to get in shape, start going to the gym together and being more active as a couple, as well as eating healthier.
4. She thinks you don't pay enough attention to her
Attention for a woman is like sex for a man - it is very important and constantly in demand! If a man doesn't pay enough attention to his wife, she'll start to lose her desire for sex (and probably start looking around). And men pay the most attention at the beginning of the relationship - then women give the most sex. This is no coincidence.
Solution: pay more attention to it. Call or write during the day, give her flowers, take her to the cinema with dinner... Treat her the same way you did when you started dating. Attention is a real aphrodisiac for her!
5. She is bored with the sexual program
If your foreplay is the same, predictable and rehearsal every time, it is very likely that the partner will start to get bored.
6. You are no longer attracted
Unfortunately, it is possible that the lack of sex is associated with a lost attraction - hormones are really arbitrary. At the beginning of the relationship, they are strong, but then they calm down or change. Taking birth control pills or other hormone therapy can greatly affect a woman's level of attraction.
Solution: If it's not about hygiene or maintaining your appearance, your partner's level of attractiveness doesn't depend much on you. In this case, it's a good idea to decide whether it's worth fighting for this relationship, or it's better to break up.
7. Angry is
An angry woman rarely wants sex. Something that doesn't really matter to you (e.g., you told her that your girlfriend would suddenly sleep with you, or you inadvertently hurt someone she likes) can instantly change "I want sex" to "Don't touch me." It is usually passive-aggressive.
Solution: here again it is a question of attention. A woman is usually angry that you hurt her by not respecting her opinion or presence. Show her that she is the first for you, and that you are ready to obey her. If you need to apologize, do so.
To summarize: when a long-time partner begins to lose interest and say "no" more often than "yes", then it's time to talk. If there is a problem, there is usually a solution. If it's a little frustration from time to time, that's life. But if we are talking about constant disappointment, it's just not worth it. Speak openly!
