Neglecting Hygiene
Maintaining personal hygiene is crucial, even in the heat of the moment. A quick shower can enhance the experience, ensuring that passion is not overshadowed by unpleasant odors.
Respectful Undressing
Avoid the cinematic approach of tearing off clothing. In reality, it can be perceived as disrespectful and even violent. Either undress completely or don't undress at all, but do so with consideration for your partner.
Prioritize Foreplay
Never skip the importance of foreplay. While quick and rough encounters might have their allure, they shouldn't become the norm. Take the time to build anticipation and connection.
Phone Etiquette
Answering phone calls during intimacy is the height of rudeness. Prioritize the moment, turn off your phone, or at least silence it. Distractions have no place in the bedroom.
Communicate Surprises
Surprises can be delightful, but not all surprises are equal. Communicate openly, especially when it comes to unconventional actions or fantasies. Consent and comfort should always be a priority.
Shared Fantasies
If you have fantasies beyond the mainstream, discuss them beforehand. Presenting a surprise strap-on without prior discussion can lead to discomfort. Open communication is key, but choose an intimate setting for these conversations.
Shared Responsibility for Pleasure
Recognize that the responsibility for pleasure is a shared endeavor. While one woman in three reaches orgasm during intercourse, the responsibility for a satisfying experience should be mutual. Allocate time for your partner's pleasure.