Avoiding 5 Common Sex Mistakes: Tips for Beginners
Date: 2023-11-11 Author: Dima Zakharov Categories: NEWS 18+
Newbie Concerns and the Reality of Sexual Experience
Everyone embarking on their sexual journey experiences occasional anxiety and uncertainty. The fear that something might go wrong can hinder a fulfilling sexual experience. Even when a partner appears satisfied, doubts may arise: "Could they be pretending not to disappoint me?"
1. Too Much Focus on the Partner
One common mistake among beginners is overly focusing on the partner. Striking a balance between personal desires and satisfying the partner is crucial. Sex is a team game, where both participants should experience pleasure. Sometimes, disconnecting the mind and simply enjoying the moment is the key to success.
2. Absence of Orgasm with the Partner
Striving for a vaginal orgasm can be challenging, but it's important to work on it together with the partner. Experiment with oral sex or manual stimulation, and openly discuss preferences. Training and open communication will contribute to mutual satisfaction.
3. Ignoring Foreplay
Foreplay is a vital part of sexual relationships, especially in long-term connections. Starting with foreplay creates an atmosphere of intimacy and excitement. It doesn't necessarily have to take a long time, but it's important for both partners to be ready for the next stage.
4. Silence in Bed Due to Shyness
Remaining silent during sex due to shyness can deprive both you and your partner of a complete experience. It doesn't require loud screams, but making sounds is a normal part of sex. If you feel reserved, start slowly and gradually, exploring new possibilities.
5. Not Expressing Your Desires
The misconception that people should guess your intimate desires is flawed. Openly discussing preferences makes your relationship more fulfilling. Remember, no one owes anything to anyone, and the sooner you learn to talk about your desires, the closer you'll be to satisfying sex.
