Diversity and the Psychology of Sex: Forgotten Aspects of Intimate Life

Sex is more than just a physical act. Sexologist Vladimir Yushmanov reminds us that for a vibrant and fulfilling intimate life, diversity and attention to details are essential. Instead of limiting sex to penetration alone, cherish the moments that precede this act. Think of sex as a shared journey, where each step is a separate source of pleasure.

Sex is not confined to the bedroom alone. It can start with a conversation in a restaurant where you discuss your desires and fantasies. Touches in an elevator, passionate kisses in the kitchen, or even mutual masturbation are all crucial components of sexual intimacy. These moments make intimate life colorful and diverse. The more you invest in non-physical aspects of sex, the more satisfying and fulfilling it becomes.

The sexologist compares sex to enjoying a Greek salad. If you merely consume olives, it's akin to restricting yourself to the physical act. To truly savor this intimate experience, add other ingredients to the olives, just as various sexual acts and experiments are added to sex.

Petting, oral sex, cunnilingus, masturbation, skillful embraces, and even discussions of your fantasies are all part of sex and ways to deepen your connection with your partner. It's important to remember that sex is not limited to the time spent in bed. Interaction and sexual intimacy can last for hours and should not be forgotten.

For couples who feel that their intimate life has become monotonous, Vladimir Yushmanov suggests reevaluating their attitude towards sex. Perhaps you have set certain standards, such as having sex twice a week, and have forgotten about other aspects of sexual harmony.

Variety and attention to details are the keys to a more satisfying intimate life. Therefore, do not limit yourself to physical contact alone; deepen your relationship with your partner through open conversations, attention to fantasies, and new experiences. As the sexologist said, sex is not just olives; it's all the other aspects you add to create your "sexual salad."