Cuckolding: Sexual Fantasy or Pathology?
Date: 2023-10-17 Author: Dima Zakharov Categories: NEWS 18+
Cuckolding is a sexual practice in which one partner derives pleasure from observing the sexual activities of others. But is it considered a pathology? Family psychologist and sex therapist Marina Travkova emphasizes that this practice, in and of itself, is not a pathology. However, it is essential to respect the boundaries of those involved if one partner finds it unacceptable.
Evolutionary Perspective and Modern Relationships
Evolutionary biologists suggest that Mother Nature strives for genetic diversity. Historical evidence of polygamous tendencies in human history indicates a desire to enhance genetic variety. Social norms of monogamy developed later. Thus, cuckolding may have its evolutionary underpinnings in the pursuit of genetic diversity.
Delineating Desires in Sexual Relationships
It's important to remember that sexual fantasies are a part of an individual's sexual identity. In the case of cuckolding, where one partner prefers to observe while another participates, it's crucial to have an honest discussion about boundaries and preferences. If a partner is uncomfortable with such a practice, it's essential to express one's opinion.
The Role of Consent in Sexual Relationships
An essential aspect of cuckolding is the consent of all participants. Under no circumstances should anyone be coerced into such a practice if it doesn't align with their personal preferences. Instead, alternative ways to explore sexual fantasies that satisfy all participants in the relationship can be considered.
